I have already written about my thoughts on introverts in my post, “Introverts and Coffeeshops.” In that post, I reviewed Introvert Power by Laurie Helgoe, PhD, which is a great book on this subject. I am introverted, my husband is introverted, and I know that at least my eldest son is probably introverted. But it’s sometimes hard to be introverted in our culture. I think those who worry too much about a homeschooler’s so-called socialization is not considering the different needs that children can have.
As Helgoe wrote:
As a psychologist, I have yet to see a child brought in for therapy because he is too social and his parents are concerned that he seems to have little access to his inner life. Yet, child after child is brought in for not talking enough, only having a few friends, and enjoying time alone—for being introverted.”
After I read Helgoe’s book, I noticed that Susan’s Cain book, Quiet, was making its way through the media. I have not read her book, although I’m sure I’d enjoy it. But I finally watched her TED talk the other night, and I loved it. If you have any interest in this subject, I suggest you watch it. You won’t be sorry!