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Note: This column is printed in the October 31, 2012 edition of the Barrow Journal.
Once a couple creates a family, they realize that family life is full of harrowing moments and howls in the dark. Little monsters — ahem — Lovable little monsters invade their lives…
This will be my sixth Halloween with children, and in that time it’s become my favorite holiday. The fact that it’s also my birthday might play a part in that too, but really, it doesn’t have the stress that comes with Christmas or Thanksgiving. Stress shouldn’t come with any holiday, but unfortunately it does. Halloween…it’s just fun.
The weather is beautiful. I love autumn temperatures, changing leaves and the opportunity to make soup. We can get outside frequently, do some gardening and pull out the hiking boots.
Costumes are fun, though sometimes a challenge. At one-year-old, my sons were both too young to protest the pumpkin costume I made them wear. As they get older, they are more opinionated. At two, my eldest liked the Peter Pan costume I picked for him, but I knew better than to try to put anything over his head.
At three, he had his “not interested in Halloween” year. The decorations in the stores scared him, and my husband ended up treating him to McDonalds on the night of Halloween while I stayed home to greet the trick or treaters.
Last year my three-year-old also went through that phase, and he wanted nothing to do with trick or treating or a costume. I don’t know which way he’ll go this year, but I haven’t bothered to buy him a costume. I can’t get him to wear long sleeves let alone a costume (and coincidently his brother dislikes short sleeves – go figure.)
My six-year-old is all into Halloween costumes now, and this year he made it easy on us by not having any pre-conceived idea of what he wanted to be. He just wanted to go to the store and look. We were there quite a while and almost came home empty-handed. Why do costume makers think all little boys want to be super heroes? My son is not into super heroes at all.
Finally I spotted something we had overlooked, and my son grabbed it right away – an extraterrestrial! It’s a green costume with three-fingered gloves and a mask with big, black eyes. The torso has a faint outline of the internal organs of this alien. Simple, yet very cool looking.
All children should be encouraged to play make-believe, and I consider Halloween a celebration of that. As with any holiday or ritual, each new family has to create their own traditions and meanings. Sometimes we keep old traditions, tweak them, or change them altogether. For me, Halloween is for the children. It’s a chance for them to be whatever they want and continue the play as they step out into the community.
It’s also fun for me because I get to watch how excited they are, and I get to accompany them on their journey around the neighborhood – a good excuse to get out and say hello to the neighbors too. The candy is another story, especially since I end up eating so much of it, but that’s a small price to pay for a day of play.
Here’s wishing you a safe and happy Halloween.