A while back I wrote about my desire to make new family traditions for my family, and December seems like a great time to do that. However, I have to admit, I have kept this December extremely simple and I’ve done nothing to intentionally start anything new. This might also be laziness on my part too. But right now with a 5 and 2 year old, it feels like an accomplishment to get our regular chores done let alone begin new projects! So I haven’t stressed. I’ve just done what I could do easily and what the boys were receptive to.
(However, part of the reason I haven’t had to do much is because my husband initiated a new goal for the family!
I’ll be writing about this in an upcoming post. You can read about that here!)
So let’s see. What have we done? We have done what we’ve always done…..
- We decorated a Christmas tree. And this year, my five-year-old put all the ornaments on by himself! That was special.
- We also put a small tree in the five-year-old’s room. We’ve done this the last few years, so I think we can call it a tradition.
- This should have been written up under my “November Activities” post, but in early November, I always help my son write a letter to Santa Claus. This year I forgot to put a stamp in the envelope, but if you put a stamp in the envelope and address it to “Santa Claus, North Pole,” you’ll probably get a reply like we did last year!!
- My five-year-old and I decided to make puppets with some extra cardboard I found and popsicle sticks. We drew pictures on the cardboard, cut them out, pasted a popsicle stick on the back, and voila! a puppet! We made some for my little nephews, and then my son wanted to make some for his friends. (A proud mama moment!)
- We have been reading our Christmas books. (I keep all the seasonal books tucked away so that we can pull them out around the holidays and they seem like new.)
- Yesterday I baked one batch of oatmeal raisin cookies with the five-year-old while the two-year-old was napping, and yep, that’s the extent of my baking for the holidays.
- This week I’ll let my boys watch some Christmas specials on T.V. if they want to. We own the Charlie Brown Christmas special.
- We strung up frosted Os for the tree. We also did this last year, so maybe we can call it a tradition. Frosted Os (or some kind of generic version) are big and easy for a little one to hold and string! (That is, if he’s willing to do it.) (Also, word to the wise: do not put them low on the tree if you have a dog. Also don’t leave them on the kid’s activity table while the dogs are in the house.)
- For an easy craft, I cut out the shape of a Christmas tree out of green construction paper, and then I cut out different colored shapes such as a star and circles, squares, triangles & small rectangles to make ornaments. (My intent was to help my 2yo learn his shapes, but the craft didn’t hold his attention for very long.) I put all the shapes and bits of paper into a plastic bag with a glue stick and a few extra Christmas stickers, and I told my boys they could make a Christmas tree whenever they wanted. I wasn’t sure my five-year-old wanted to do it, but he finally asked for it today.
So that is what I have done this December. There’s also a few things I didn’t do:
- We didn’t decorate the outside of our house. (Except for a small wreath on the door.)
- I didn’t send Christmas cards this year. (Needed to save time and money.)
- We didn’t do a lot of baking. (Except for that one batch of oatmeal raisin cookies.)
- We didn’t drive around looking at Christmas lights. (This was a favorite tradition of mine growing up.)
- I didn’t buy a lot of presents (don’t have the money anyway), make any presents (except for the easy puppets), or invite anyone over for a Christmas get-together.
My main goal this December was to just enjoy the time with my boys, husband and keep up with our daily routine because when I don’t do that, we can all get quite frazzled. Like I said above, with a 5 and 2 year-old, it’s an accomplishment to get anything done, and routine is important to them. As their mom, I have to be ready for their mood changes (which can be swift), illnesses or whims (“I don’t want to do a craft, Mommy!”) I also want to honor daddy’s ideas for family outings while he’s home on winter break. So, not overwhelming myself with extra chores or expectations is key to making me a good mother. (At least, most of the time.)
Whether you celebrate Christmas, another holiday, or none at all, I hope this winter season is warm, happy and peaceful for you! Please leave me a comment and tell me what celebrations or activities you are participating in this December.